Heading off to university is a big step – new city, new course, new independence and, of course, new people to live with. One of the first questions many students ask is:
Can I choose who I live with?
Let’s break it down.
Can I choose my University roommates?
The short answer? Sometimes, yes – but it depends on your accommodation provider and when you apply.
If you’re moving into university halls or student accommodation like Abodus, you’ll often be given the option to request to live with friends. The key is to apply early and make sure you all list each other’s names on your applications. While it’s not guaranteed, accommodation teams will always try their best to place friends together if possible. Speak with the site team at the accommodation you want to book and find out what rooms they have close together.
Don’t Know Anyone Yet?
That’s completely normal – and part of the fun of university.
Most students move in without knowing anyone beforehand. Accommodation providers often match students based on shared preferences or course type, helping you connect with people who have similar lifestyles. You might even be asked a few simple questions to help find a good match.
Everyone’s in the same boat and it’s one of the easiest ways to make new friends.
Shared Flat or Studio?
If you’re more of a private person, you can opt for a studio instead of a shared flat (typically En-suites). You’ll have your own kitchen and bathroom, which gives you more privacy (and control over the washing up schedule).
That said, shared living is where many students make some of their closest friendships – bonding over tea, takeaway and midnight study sessions is part of the uni experience for a reason.
What If We Don’t Get Along?
It happens. Not every flatmate situation is perfect, and that’s okay.
If you find you’re really struggling, your accommodation team is there to help. At Abodus, our site staff can support you with any concerns and, in some cases, room swaps might be available – especially early in the term.
Final Thoughts
While you can sometimes choose your University roommates, student living is also about embracing the unexpected and meeting new people. Whether you arrive with a group of friends or on your own, you’ll find your people – and your place – soon enough.
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