Moving into university accommodation is a huge step into adulthood. You’re gaining independence, making new friends and experiencing life on your own terms. But if you’re sharing a flat or house, it’s not just about you anymore. Learning how to live harmoniously with roommates can make your student accommodation experience so much smoother. At Abodus Student Living, we’ve seen it all, so here are our best tips to help you thrive in a shared space.
1. Talk it Out (Communication is Everything)
Starting uni means meeting new people with different lifestyles and habits. As with anything, the best way to avoid awkwardness is through open communication. Talk openly and let your roommates know about your routines, learn about theirs, and if something’s bugging you, have a chat instead of letting it build up. Honest but friendly conversations can solve 90% of roommate dramas.
2. Agree on Ground Rules Early
Cleaning, noise and guests are usually the biggest pain points in student accommodation. Create some house rules or a rota together—whether that’s who takes the bins out or when everyone should try to keep the noise down. Trust us, future-you will thank present-you for sorting it out early.
3. Respect Personal Space
Living in shared student accommodation doesn’t mean 24/7 socialising. Knock before going into someone’s room, use headphones when gaming late at night, don’t blast the portable speaker and respect downtime during deadlines. A little courtesy goes a long way in keeping the peace.
4. Keep Shared Spaces Chill (and Clean)
No one wants to wake up to a kitchen full of unwashed plates or dirty sideboards. Shared spaces like kitchens, bathrooms and living rooms work best when everyone pitches in. Wash up, wipe down and don’t hog the fridge!
5. Make Time for Fun Together
Roommates can easily become some of your closest friends if you make an effort. Plan flat dinners, movie nights, or head out to explore your new city together. Shared experiences are what make student life unforgettable.
6. Don’t Let Small Stuff Blow Up
Conflict happens—it’s normal. The trick is handling it calmly. Avoid passive-aggressive sticky notes and talk things through instead. And remember, if you’re living in an Abodus Student Living residence, our friendly teams are always around to help if needed.
7. Remember: You’re All in This Together
Living with others at university is about compromise, patience and fun. Be kind, be considerate and you’ll create a space that feels like home.
FAQs: Student Roommates 101
Q: How do I deal with a messy roommate?
A: Set a cleaning rota early so everyone knows their responsibilities. If things get out of hand, have a calm chat rather than letting it fester.
Q: What if my roommate is noisy at night?
A: Agree on quiet hours, especially during the week. Headphones, earplugs, or even a friendly conversation can make a big difference.
Q: Should I share food with my flatmates?
A: It depends on your group! Some flats create a “shared shelf” for basics like milk or pasta, while others prefer to keep food separate. Decide together at the start to avoid confusion.
Q: What if we don’t get along?
A: Not everyone becomes best friends and that’s okay. Respecting each other’s space and keeping communication open helps you coexist peacefully.
Roommates are a big part of student life—sometimes challenging, but often the source of lifelong friendships. By communicating openly, respecting each other’s space and sharing responsibilities, you’ll make your student accommodation experience smoother and way more enjoyable.
At Abodus Student Living, we know the value of a happy flat. That’s why our student accommodation is designed with shared living in mind, giving you the perfect balance of community and independence.
